First dates are a chance to get to know someone new, figure out if you want to see them again and, potentially, meet the love of your life. But apparently they can also be used to analyse whether or not the guy sitting opposite you is going to be great in bed.
A list of ways has been revealed to help you to work out if a man will give you an unforgettable night between the sheets - and all it takes is a little attention to detail...
HOW DOES HE TALK?
Everyone loves getting to know someone, but apparently chatting with a man doesn't just reveal your compatibility levels or a few key personality traits - it'll also showcase his sex style.
"If they talk in a monotone and change facial expressions once an hour, they're flat-lining. Low enthusiasm means they'll be boring in bed as well. The person who throws their arms in the air at dinner, nearly knocking over the waiter, is full of life and passion. If they can get that worked up out of the bedroom, just think what they'll be like in it!"
WHERE'S HE SITTING?
"Where they choose to sit when you're out for a drink or dinner is another giveaway. If they choose the seat facing you and the wall instead of the prime people-watching position, you're onto a winner."
Yup, having a man choose the seat which faces you, and only you, is a VERY good sign when it comes to predicting his bedroom style - and the reason, when you think about it, is pretty obvious.
The more their focus is entirely on you, the more they can remain in the moment when you're alone.
WHAT DOES HE ORDER FOR DINNER?
You read that correctly - apparently a man who's more adventurous with his food is set to be more adventurous in the bedroom too. Spicy and exotic foods are basically one of the easiest ways to guess if your guy will spice things up in the bedroom. If they're not into experimenting or trying exotic fare, they're hardly going to dish up the Kama Sutra behind closed doors."
WHAT'S HIS EATING STYLE?
They say the best way to a man's heart is through his stomach, but it seems as if his stomach is also the best way to figure out if he'll be a sizzler between the sheets. Watching your man tuck into his dinner is a surefire way to tell what he'll be like in bed - and it's apparently a case of bigger is better!
"Quite frankly, I'd put my money on the guy with love handles who tucks in with gusto, over the one with the six-pack who eats one steamed chicken breast every fortnight. A good appetite usually means they've got a lusty libido to match."
IS HE A TOUCHY-FEELY PERSON?
We're not talking over-the-top all-over-you, but a man who is comfortable with others invading his personal space is apparently more likely to be comfortable in the bedroom.
"Physical distance often translates to emotional and sexual distance. The more comfortable they are expressing affection, the more affectionate and loving they'll be during sex."
Look for arm touching, standing or sitting close to people, hugging friends hello (or goodbye) and other little indicators that he's happy showing his affection. Easy!
HOW DOES HE HOLD YOUR HAND?
Moved onto hand holding? Apparently the way he holds your hand in his is a very good way to indicate how he'll leave you feeling after a night of passion - and, unsurprisingly, it's all about the intertwining fingers.
"Intertwined fingers mean they're likely to be highly erotic: they're touching every part of your hand which expresses a desire to be connected physically and emotionally."
Sounds good to us! What about the less exciting hand-cupping action?
"The standard palm-to-palm clasp suggests affection and acceptance though it's unlikely they're going to surprise you sexually."
WHAT'S HIS KISSING STYLE?
As Cher said all those years ago, it really IS in his kiss! Only YOU can decide if he's got this one nailed - if he leaves you weak at the knees with a touch of his lips, you're more than likely to appreciate his skills between the sheets. If he leaves you recoiling in barely-disguised disgust, it really is best not to go there. Ever.
But there's a few other little things you can watch out for...
"Men who cup your face in their hands are romantic souls and usually intense, passionate lovers who want full, reciprocal focus."
"Getting a little carried away during your first kiss is a good sign; if there's a little groan or moan even better - who wants a lukewarm lover?"
Exactly - we'll be keeping an eye out for that when we're next locking lips with someone new........
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