Friday 31 May 2013

Office Sex: 10 Men And Women Share Their Workplace Sex Stories

Sleeping with your coworkers can be a tricky business.
But according to a recent survey conducted by Business Insider, a whole lot of people get romantically (or physically) involved with their colleagues.
We were curious about the realities of office sex -- did most people have positive experiences? Terrible ones? Were these interactions just sexual flings or did they turn into extended romantic relationships? So we asked readers, both male and female, to chime in and share their stories.
Read their tales below;
"Sometimes we give each other that look of 'if only they knew.'"
He technically isn't a co-worker, we just work in the same building. All the women in the building talk about him and how good looking he is. I obviously agreed, though I never thought that flashing a smile here and there and having quick flirty conversations every once in awhile would lead to anything. Eventually, he asked me out and we went out a couple of times before we hooked up. It isn't anything serious and it's still going on. We both agreed that we would NEVER mention our situation to anyone at work because people would most definitely gossip about us. When we are around each other at work, we just act normal and sometimes we give each other that look of "if only they knew."
I don't think there is anything wrong [with office sex] if you can keep your work and personal life separate. I think our arrangement works because we aren't look to be in a relationship, we are just having fun.
--24-year-old woman.
"The thought of doing it right there where people work was intense"
We had just started dating and we worked in a computer room. We first worked together -- she was my supervisor. Then she was transferred to a different department but still worked in the same computer room. A couple of things happened. We worked nights frequently. We would flirt around constantly, playing little games like giving each other dirty handwritten notes or playing grab-a** as we passed by each other while no one was looking. One night when the two of us were alone in the office the games started getting really heavy we were outside of the computer room in an open office area and she laid down on the floor then we stripped each other's clothes off just enough. And then we started having sex. It was a bit tough at times because she complained about the carpet on her body and it was hurting my knees as well. But it was so hot that [the carpet] didn't stop us. The thought of doing it right there where people work was intense. Afterwards when we would see each other in the area during the day we'd give each other an evil grin -- like, "oh yeah we did!"
--50-year-old man.
"Dynamics change when sex is involved"
Dan took me under his wing at my first attempt at working retail; fresh out of college I thought I'd struck workplace gold. He was a year or two younger than me but we shared similar interests and he was approachable enough to ask questions when I couldn't figure something out. After a few months, our flirty exchanges had grown into a friendship. One day Dan asked me on a date after work, and I accepted not thinking much of it. I had just gotten out of a bad relationship and I could use a drink or five.
I'd never dated a co-worker, never thought I would, and I definitely didn't want to date him. Dan was cute enough to flirt with when work got boring and nice enough to talk to on a break, but that was it. We had a few drinks too many, one thing led to the other and next thing you know we are romping in his bedroom somewhere in Jersey. My first one night stand (because I wouldn't do that again) and my first and only fling with him. The next morning I woke up casually, pulled myself together and he escorted me all the way back into the city. I knew he wanted something more, and that was something I just couldn't give him. I'd made it clear to him that that day was a one-time deal.
Things at work got weird. His demeanor toward me shifted. He would get mad at me in front of clients if I took too long to respond to him, if I seemed uninterested or if I was plain too busy with work. I confronted him about how unprofessional it was and he'd say "sorry" but would continue making comments here and there, giving me dirty looks, or confronting about things in fits of jealousy. After this experience I am weary of creating any sort of relationship other than a professional one with co-workers. Things tend to get tricky when you spend so many hours of your day around a set of people and dynamics somehow change when sex is involved.
--25-year-old woman.
"The interview almost immediately felt like a date"
I needed a job quickly as I had just gotten laid off from an office job. I found myself outside the doors of a restaurant. I was reluctant, but went in an applied for a job. I was interviewed my the manager on the spot, [and the] interview almost immediately felt like a date. It was casual with lots of laughter and I thoroughly enjoyed the conversation.
Four months later, I received a phone call around 8 o'clock from this manager. We spoke for quite literally 12 hours. The very next night, I was over his apartment and it feels like I have never left since. I ended up moving to a new restaurant as my staying would jeapordize his job -- but we've been married for a year and together for six years!
--28-year-old woman.
"Everything was fine -- until we broke up"
So I was a professional musical theater actress for a while and I was dating a fellow cast member during a dance-intensive show. Everything was fine -- until we broke up. Since he was the largest man and I was the smallest woman in the cast, we had many dance lifts together during the show, the sort of death defying pick-you-up-and-spin-you-over-my-head sort. Needless to say, he got vindictive and dropped me several times during rehearsal. It was childish and stupid, and gave me more than a few bumps and bruises. I wouldn't recommend dating your lift partner. Believe me, it doesn't turn out well. Fortunately the director took note and he wasn't given dance roles after that.
--23-year-old woman.
"Today he is still with his wife and I have raised our son singlehandedly."
I 'hooked up' with a co-worker. We both worked for a large, multi-national company. Many of the (male) staff spent their week away from home and returned home over the weekend. We ended up sharing a house and I used to take him to the airport on Friday evenings and pick him up on Monday morning! That was over 20 years ago. Today he is still with his wife and I have raised our son singlehandedly.
[My son is] a successful young man now at university getting a math degree. He has never seen or spoken to his father! Will they ever meet? How would his father feel? How would my son feel? I loved my son's father and don't know if we will ever meet again. Life has gone on and my son has only ever bought me joy. He is a product of an affair, illegitimate and unplanned. Yet this has never been an obstacle in his life or prevented him from being the intelligent, kind, funny and successful young man that he is. My heart has ached over the years but now it has healed.
--53-year-old woman.
"I cheated on my boyfriend with one of the managers at my old job"
I cheated on my boyfriend with one of the managers at my old job. I ended up breaking it off with my boyfriend and marrying my manager! When my boss found out we were dating, my hours were cut from 20+ hours a week to five hours a week. He also made my time there absolutely miserable so I quit and found a new job: motherhood.
--21-year-old woman.
"Perks of the job, I suppose"
When I got my first job after uni (managing a small country pub), I had a few female co-workers. One I fancied like mad but she wasn't interested. Another was young and impressionable, and I'll happily admit was infatuated with me. We often shared drinks after work and spent the nights on the sofa in the bar.
Perks of the job, I suppose!
--25-year-old man.
"Our relationship was against company policy, so we had to keep it hidden"
I've slept with a co-worker. We were in college, we had all the same friends and [we] hung out after work. One night after a handle of vodka the inevitable happened. In fact, it happened about four times that night. And then every day after that. We broke up a few weeks later. Working together was so awkward. He brought another girl to work one evening and I freaked out a little.

We got back together. He got promoted. Our relationship was against company policy, so we had to keep it hidden, even from our friends that we saw every night. [Eventually], he quit his job and we "came out" at the company party. Everyone was shocked. We've been together eight years and got married in February!
--30-year-old woman.
"The entire time, my mind kept repeating, 'this is bad, you shouldn't be doing this'"
I am very conscious about keeping my personal and professional lives separate. However, one night, a co-worker and I ended up grabbing a couple drinks. It was meant to be just a couple post-work drinks, vent about the day, etc., but those drinks took us to a dark, poorly-lit bar oozing with sexual chemistry and pockets of isolation.
Then, one of those movie moments happened: he put his hand around my waist, I put mine on his shoulder. He looked down at me and I looked up, and then, it happened -- this incredible, inappropriate, "I know I shouldn't be doing this" kiss. It then morphed into, "let's go to your place" which then led to the most erotic, shameful and amazing sex I'd had up until that point. The entire time, my mind kept repeating "this is bad, you shouldn't be doing this, this is just stupid" but my body was loving every second of it. I haven't indulged since, but it's definitely one of those most intense experiences I've had.
~30-year-old-woman

Thursday 30 May 2013

Newborn Baby Rescued Alive From Toilet Pipe After Parents Flushed Him Away

A new born Chinese baby was rescued by firefighters from a toilet pipe after being flushed down the toilet by his parents. The 2-day old baby was stuck in the sewage pipe directly beneath a toilet commode in a residential building in Jinhua in the wealthy coastal province of Zhejiang on Saturday afternoon, Chinese State TV reports

Firefighters received a call from residents of a block of flats saying they heard the sound of a baby crying and believed a baby was stuck in the pipe. When firefighters got there, they removed the pipe and took it to a nearby hospital, where doctors carefully cut around it to rescue the baby boy inside. 

The baby, whose placenta was still attached, is believed to have been stuck in the pipe for hours. Unbelievably, he survived the ordeal. He is now in care and said to be in stable condition. The police are said to be looking for his parents. God be praised. 



Tuesday 28 May 2013

Muslim Lesbian Couple Married in the UK (PICTURED)

**she is my soul-mate and we love each other deeply. ‘It’s no one’s business as to what we do with our personal lives.

A pair of Pakistani women have made history as the first Muslim lesbian couple to get married in the UK.
Rehana Kausar, 34, and Sobia Kamar, 29, made history when they tied the knot in a register office civil ceremony, then immediately applied for political asylum after they were wed, claiming their lives would be in danger if they returned to their native country.
Watched by their solicitors and two friends, the pair wore traditional white bridal dresses when they were married in Leeds, West Yorkshire.
The pair, from the Lahore and Mirpur regions of Pakistan, said they had received death threats from opponents in Pakistan – where homosexual acts are illegal and considered against Islam.
And since news of their wedding earlier this month spread, the pair claimed they had even received death threats from the UK.
Before the service, even the registrar advised the couple to give serious thought to their decision to marry because of some Muslims’ views on homosexuality.

Ms Kausar, a master’s degree holder in economics from Punjab University (pictured), both came to the UK to study business and health care management
Kausar said: ‘This country allows us rights and it’s a very personal decision that we have taken.
‘It’s no one’s business as to what we do with our personal lives.
‘The problem with Pakistan is that everyone believes he is in charge of other people’s lives and can best decide about the morals of others but that’s not the right approach and we are in this state because of our clergy who have hijacked our society which was once a tolerant society and respected individuals’ freedoms.’

The pair married at the register office located at Leeds Town Hall. They have lived in South Yorkshire as a couple for a year
Ms Kamar, speaking to the Birmingham Mail, described her partner as her ‘soul mate’ and said the two women were deeply in love.

Islamists Stab and Kill Couple For Kissing IN Public In Turkey

Islamists attacked a group of kissing couples who locked lips in a Turkish metro station to protest a morality campaign by the authorities in Ankara, the local press reported.

One person was stabbed when about 20 Islamists chanting “Allah Akhbar” (God is Greatest) and some carrying knives attacked the demonstrators on Saturday, the Milliyet and Hurriyet newspapers reported.

About 200 people staged the kissing protest after officials in the Ankara municipality, which is run by Turkey’s ruling Islamist-rooted Justice and Development Party (AKP), admonished a young couple for kissing in the street.

Turkey is predominantly Muslim but staunchly secular, although the government of Prime Minister Recep Tayyip Erdogan has introduced several measures opponents see as a sign of the creeping Islamisation of the country, including restrictions on alcohol.

(Photo) "White Women’ in White Garments"

The Oyinbos are members of celestial church of Christ from Luton parish in London … And the man in the middle is also a member. 

Saturday 25 May 2013

Woman Burns Son’s Face & Stabs Him In The Head For Stealing

A 25 year old petty trader has been arrested by police in Ibeju Lekki for allegedly burning her 6 year old son's face for going into their neighbour's home and licking their soup.

Not only did Sakirat Attah burn her son's face with hot iron after the neighbour reported her son to her, she also used a broken bottle to stab young Daniel in the head. You can see the photo above. How you can do this to your own child is beyond me.

Sakirat took her son into their one room apartment after finding out what he did, locked the door, lit a stove, put an iron spoon on it to get hot and used it to burn his face and hands as punishment. And when that wasn't enough, she broke a bottle and stabbed him in the head, leaving a deep cut. Daniel later told police he stole the soup because he was hungry.

Neighbours who heard the little boy screaming for help entered the room and rescued him from the mother. They rushed him to the hospital and called the police on the mum.

Shakirat Attah has been charged before an Igbosere Magistrate’s Court in Lagos on a one count charge of assaulting a minor occasioning bodily harm. She's currently in Kirikiri Prison, pending when she  fulfills her bail conditions. I hope they take this child away from her.

Friday 24 May 2013

10 Things You Probably Don't Know About Vagina

Sex is something lots of guys they think they know everything about. They assume they know everything there is to know not only about how to please a woman, but also about her anatomy and how it plays a role in sex. You may think you know a lot about the body of a woman, but you probably didn’t know these ten things about a woman’s vagina!

An Orgasm Is An Excellent Pain Reliever

Next time your girl gives you the excuse that she doesn’t want to have sex with you because she has a headache, you can tell her she’s full of it. An orgasm is an excellent pain reliever, and can work as well as over the counter medicines or even some pharmaceutical grade pain relievers. You just have to actually make sure you give her a great orgasm!

The Vagina Cleans Itself

A woman’s genitals are designed to clean itself – meaning, douching is completely unnecessary and can actually do more harm than good. After menstruation, it cleans itself out and continues to do so throughout a woman’s monthly cycle. It also will clean itself out after sex! This helps prevent yeast or bacterial infections. However, if more bacteria or yeast are introduced than the body can handle, an overgrowth can occur. This usually can be easily treated with over the counter creams or doctor prescribed antibiotics.

It’s Not All About The G-Spot

The g-spot gets all the credit for giving women amazing orgasms, but there is another spot – called the A-Spot – that can be just as effective at giving a woman an earth shattering climax. The A-Spot is located deeper within the canal than the g-spot (right in front of the cervix) and it can be stimulated using the same “come hither” motion with your fingers that you would use if you were stimulating the g-spot. Just remember that since you’re going very deep inside a woman, you need plenty of good lubrication and you need her to be aroused first so it’s not painful or uncomfortable.

You Are What You Eat

A healthy vagina has an odor, but it is usually not very pungent. A yeast or bacterial infection can make it smell more pungent, but a funky smelling peach doesn’t always mean an infection. Many of the things a woman eats will affect the way her genitals taste and smell. For example, eating lots of pineapple and sweet fruits will make it taste and smell sweeter (which can be great for oral sex), but vegetables such as cabbage or asparagus can give it a more off putting scent.

The Vagina Can Actually Fall Out!

Vaginal prolapse is when the uterus, ovaries, fallopian tubes or vagina (or a combination of all of these) moves downward from its natural place in the body. This condition is common following surgeries such as hysterectomies, but can also happen without any prior event. In severe cases, this medical condition will cause the inner tissues to protrude through the vaginal opening.

Female Ejaculation Does Exist

Women – in addition to men – can ejaculate varying amounts of fluid during orgasm. Many women are able to produce very large amounds of fluid! Some skeptics report that the “ejaculate” that comes from a woman isn’t actually ejaculate at all, but urine. However, science has found that the components of female ejaculate are separate from the components of urine are very different and while the fluid does come from the paraurethral ducts, it does not come from the bladder.

The Vagina Can Double In Length When A Woman Is Aroused

How long a vagina is varies from woman to woman. Some women have very small, short canals while others have very long ones. The average size in an unaroused woman is 3-4 inches long, but during arousal, this number can increase and may even double! So guys, make sure your lady is aroused before penetration, because you’ll go a lot deeper and she’ll be a lot more comfortable during sex.

Having Sex Can Keep The Vagina Young And Healthy

Like the rest of your muscles, the vagina needs to be used and exercised or it will become weak and brittle. During prolonged periods of abstinence, especially when a woman goes through menopause or reaches old age, the delicate tissues inside will thin and can begin to break down. Regular sex, however, will help keep a woman’s genitals in peak form.

Vaginal Secretions Contain A Component Found In Shark Livers

Upon microscopic examination of the ingredients found in female vaginal secretions, scientists have noted that these secretions contain a component actually found in shark livers. This is called squalene, and can also be found in vegetable oils. It can be used in cosmetics, because it is an excellent moisturizer that doesn’t leave the skin feeling greasy! Squalene is most likely what makes natural secretions good for the health of the genitals, because it keeps the tissue moist and supple.

The Vaginal Muscles Are Extremely Powerful

All women have the ability to use their vaginal muscles – also called the PC muscles – during sex. These are also the same muscles a girl uses to stop the flow of urine, and they can be strengthened through exercises like Kegels. You might not think that these muscles would be very powerful, but they are! The world record holder for the strongest vagina is a Russian woman who was able to lift 31 pounds with her vaginal muscles only!

Try This Out When Your Guy Gets Jealous



Things can get more than a little complicated when the green monster makes its way into your relationship. Your guy feels jealous, you insist there's nothing to worry about, but he can't seem to get over it - sound familiar? Here's how to handle it:

Consider the source.

Put yourself in his shoes for a minute. Have you been acting a bit flirty with your coworker? Cozying up to one of his pals when you go out? Even if your actions have seemed harmless, take the time to step back and see why your guy may be feeling this way.

Focus on the fix.

If you're not careful, talking about the issue can quickly turn into a negative back-and-forth that goes nowhere. Rather than rehashing the problem again and again, steer the conversation toward action. Ask what you can do to ease his insecurities, and come up with a few small, simple acts that may help him feel better.

Don't dish to your friends.

When you fight with your guy, it's tempting to call your friends to complain, but that's only going to make matters worse. Respect your relationship by keeping the issue between you and him.

Make it about him.

Chances are, the jealousy issue is actually about attention. If he felt like he was getting plenty of attention from you, then he may not worry about how you interact with everyone else. Make a point to show him extra affection when you're out with other people - when you build up your relationship, you'll build up his confidence and hopefully ease the issue.

Scent That Attracts Women Most



Women at their peak fertility prefer the smell of men oozing with testosterone, a new study finds.

Ovulation has been shown to impact a woman's mating preferences. For instance, women in the fertile phase of their menstrual cycle favor more masculine traits, such as a deep voice or manly face, characteristics associated with the hormone testosterone, studies have found. Other research suggests fertile women are attracted to men with high levels of the stress hormone cortisol, which may be involved in stronger immune systems.

In the new study, researchers tested how women's sexual scent preferences changed depending on men's levels of testosterone and cortisol. Male volunteers were given T-shirts to wear for two consecutive nights, during which time they were prohibited from using scented soaps or detergents; drinking or smoking; or eating garlic, onion, green chiles, strong cheeses and other pungent foods.

Then, female volunteers sniffed the men's shirts and rated the pleasantness, sexiness and intensity of the smells (on scales from 1 to 10). The women also completed a questionnaire about their stage in their menstrual cycles and whether they were using hormonal contraception.

The researchers took saliva samples from the men to measure hormone levels of testosterone and cortisol.

Women who were at the most fertile stage of their menstrual cycles preferred the smell of men with higher testosterone, rating these "manly" shirts as the most pleasant and sexiest, results showed. The women showed no preference for the smells of men with higher cortisol levels. Without taking the women's fertility into account, neither hormone had an influence on how attractive the men smelled.

The link found between testosterone and smell attractiveness contrasts with the findings of a previous study. That study sampled a smaller group of subjects (19 men versus the current study's 46 men), which could weaken the significance of the findings. However, that study tested for testosterone three times throughout the day, making it more sensitive to the hormone's frequent fluctuations.

"This is a controversial research area. Studies are highly inconsistent," psychologist Wendy Wood of the University of Southern California, who was not involved in the study, told LiveScience in an email. "Only a few studies have shown that women's menstrual cycles influence their mate preferences - many more find no effects of menstrual cycles on preferences," Wood added.

The chemical androstenol contributes to the musky smell of body odor. Men produce much more of this chemical than women, and testosterone levels may be linked to production of these molecules, the researchers suggest. If so, the women in the study may be responding to these subtle odor cues.

If the findings can be replicated, scientists could try to identify these odor molecules, and then figure out how they influence human scent preferences.

Whether these chemicals are signals of masculine qualities, or just a byproduct of them, remains unclear.



Eight Things He's Dying to Tell You



Sometimes the truth hurts, and that's why so many men say they sugarcoat things with the women they date. A group of men was asked to stop lying and keep it real. Find out what they want to say!

Ladies, like it or not, your man has lied to you on more than one occasion. But now, before you jump to any conclusions, hear this: There are sometimes things he wishes he could tell you but he feels you just can't handle. Therefore, you get the filtered version.

So, a group of men was asked to talk about all the things they 'wish' they could say to their woman's face. These are their top answers.

"Yes, You've Put On a Few Pounds. But that's okay!" Nothing in life stays the same. That includes our bodies. If you noticed the change, of course, he did, too. That doesn't mean he has a problem with it. Many of us like when our women add on some "bonus" weight. We see it as an enhancement to what was already there. So relax. You being comfortable in your own skin will always be the ultimate turn-on.

"That's Not the Hairstyle For You!"Whether you wear it short, long, natural or with a little something extra added in there, he definitely takes an interest in your hair. Now, it is your hair; do with it as you please. There are times, however, when he would like to have a little input without being the bad guy and simply have the liberty to say, "Babe, that's not my favorite style on you!"

"Go Out With Your Girls, Please!" Yes, there will be times he's looking forward to your "girl's night out" just as much as you are - but you shouldn't be offended. It isn't that he doesn't want to spend time with you. He does; he just doesn't want to spend all of his time with you. Your ability to have a social life outside of your time together makes you even more attractive. You'll never be one of the guys, and that's perfectly okay. What he needs is for you to be his woman. That's what gives him balance.

"Actually, No, I Don't Miss You Yet!" When you're asking a man if he misses you and you only just left his house, sometimes he's tempted to tell the truth and say, "Not really." Give him a chance to miss you. Let him say it and show it when he's ready and the result will be far more rewarding. At times, a little space will help fuel the passion and keep the fire going.

"Your Friends Really Aren't That Cool!" He is never going to enjoy your friends as much as you do. They're your friends for a reason. While he may genuinely like them, and he should, there will be times where he just wants to bow out and let you hang out with them without him having to sit through all those inside conversations about shoes and work drama and stories he can't keep up with.

"No, I'm Not Awake!" When you call him just after midnight on a Tuesday and ask him if he's asleep, but before he can answer you start talking, and talking and talking, he really wants to hang up. In fact, if you were anybody else he would hang up. If it's not an emergency, cut him some slack sometimes and let him get his beauty rest, too.

"That's What You're Wearing?" You may be the fashionista, but every now and then your man has a critique or two - even if he doesn't voice it at the time. That generic head nod he gives you when you ask if you look good is really his conscious effort not to kill your vibe. Sometimes he just wants to say "Dearest, I hate it" without you taking it as an insult or mood killer. Some looks will inevitable appeal to him more to him than others and you want him to feel comfortable telling the truth about which is which.

"Can I Stay Home Please?" There will be times when he just wants to stay home. Sitting on the couch with his favorite food and beverage of choice can be heaven on earth for a man. He knows this can't happen all the time. But when the moment is right, it can be just as fun to kick it in the crib and just enjoy each other without the outside noise. (Plus, it can be a real money-savor too.)

Lebanese Man Arrested For Kidnapping His Aunt in Lagos!

A 23 year old Lebanese man has been arrested by police in Lagos for kidnapping his 61 year old aunt, Alhaja Essa Dannawi. Mohammed Dannawi (pictured above) conspired with a former employee of his aunt, Obi Kwentua, (pictured above) to kidnap the woman on May 2nd at her home in Ebute Meta, Lagos.

Mohammed, who later confessed to the crime, told police during interrogation that he didn't kidnap his aunt because of money but to punish her because she offended him and his wife. He said:
“My aunty did something very bad to my wife and I and so I decided to punish her. I met with Obi (Kwentua) and told him that I wanted my aunty kidnapped. I gave him the spare key to her house and he in turn hired some boys to do the work. On the day of the operation, I left the house and five guys stormed the place and took my aunty away. The plan was not to demand money from her, it was just punishment.”
After the kidnapping, the kidnappers demanded N100m ransom from the woman's family but later agreed to collect N4m. It was during negotiations with the kidnappers that Mohammed confessed to being behind the kidnap and with his co-operation the police were able to arrest one of the suspects, Obi Kwentua when he came to collect the N4million ransom from relatives of the victim at Rita Lori Hotel in Surulere.

Essa Dannawi was later released while Mohammed and Kwentua were arrested.

Wednesday 22 May 2013

VIDEO/PHOTO: Husband Burns His Wife For Being Too Beautiful


A Kenyan man burnt his wife for being too beautiful after being married for more than two years. 

John claims he abused his wife because she would cheat on him on several occasions, an accusation Janet denied saying it was him who broke the marriage with his infidelity.

The victim of the domestic violence, Janet Mwihaki, a citizen of Kenya met her fate after giving birth to their third son in 2005.

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Janet and John got married in 1999 and bore him a son the next year. In 2002, she gave birth to their second and in 2005, their third. Then the side of her husband she didn't know existed began to emerge.

After a year of separation, Janet came back to work in Nairobi as a trader.

John burnt his wife's hands and entire body, disfiguring her body.

The police advised her to report him to the authorities if she ever saw him again.

John was given a ten-year jail term, which ends in three years.

According to prison guards, John today is a changed man and because of his good conduct, he might be released early.

Domestic violence still remains one of the least convicted crimes in Kenya and no one really wants to discuss it, whether it's against the man or woman.


SHOCKING: Man Rapes His Girlfriend's Three-Year-Old Daughter With A Screwdriver


Testimony began Monday in the trial of a Mason man accused of raping a toddler with a screwdriver.

Patrick Parker, 49, is charged with two first-degree felony counts of rape and two counts of gross sexual imposition, third-degree felonies.


Prosecutors say Parker used a screwdriver and his fingers to sexually assault a three-year-old child he was acquainted with and had access to on overnight stays between July 2007 and June 2009.

The alleged crimes were reported about a year later, according to prosecutors.

The girl's mother testified Monday that she noticed behavioral changes in the girl beginning in 2008 after overnight stays with Parker. In May 2009, she said the girl asked to give her a kiss on the mouth during which she inserted her tongue in her mouth.

When she questioned her daughter, the girl reported Parker had kissed her in that manner, according to the mother's testimony.

The girl's mother reported the incident to officials in Kentucky, where she and her daughter lives. The alleged crimes occurred at Parker's Mason home, according to court documents.

Prosecutors say the girl two years later disclosed to a licensed clinical psychologist that during this time, Parker had digitally penetrated her with his fingers and a device she described as a screwdriver.

The Enquirer generally does not identify victims of sex crimes and is not identifying the mother to protect her daughter's identity.

In their opening arguments, defense attorneys denied the accusations and say the girl's story is riddled with inconsistencies and suggest she may have been coached or asked leading questions by interviewers.

Psychological testing performed on Parker in 2009 after the accusations were made revealed no signs of sexual deviancy, the attorneys told the judge.

Parker faces a possible life sentence on the rape charges. The sentences for the gross sexual imposition charges carry a maximum penalty of up to five years in prison on each count.

The three-day bench trial is expected to wrap up Wednesday.


Teenage Girl Raped Twice When She Went To A Nightclub



A teenage girl separated from her friends on a night out was put in a taxi and driven to a muddy park 25 miles away, where she was raped twice and thought she was going to die, a court heard today.

Arshad Arif, 28, of Slough, Berkshire, allegedly approached the 17-year-old when she was standing cold and wet outside a nightclub in Watford, Hertfordshire, with no money, mobile phone or coat.

Two hours later she banged on a couple's door in Slough, with her tights hanging off and underwear missing - after being attacked twice by Arif, who had forced her to perform acts, the court was told.

Abigail Husbands, prosecuting, told Reading Crown Court in Berkshire: 'Her father received a terrible phone call from his daughter - the sort every parent dreads. She had been attacked.'

After meeting friends at one of their parents' houses, the group had gone a bar in Watford, before ending up at the nightclub Oceana where they drank more wine and shots of spirits.

But she became separated from her friends, who last saw the girl at 1.50am and could not find her.

'She had no coat, no bag, no money and no phone,' Ms Husbands added. 'It was raining. It was late November. She must have been feeling pretty desperate.'

After being outside on her own for about an hour, during which she tried in vain to contact people by borrowing other people's phones, the girl - who was then 17 - was allegedly approached by Arif.

The jury watched footage showing them speaking briefly before he led her away. They walked away from a taxi rank outside the club and she then used Arif's phone to make a call, the court was told.

The prosecutor said: 'Her parents were woken up by a call to their landline. She said: "Mum, it's me. I don't feel very well. I can't find the others. I want to come home. Can you come and get me?"

Her mother got out of bed and set off to collect her last November from Watford, but arrived too late.

As the mother set off, her daughter was getting into the taxi with the man she had only just met. He spoke to the driver in a language she did not understand, the court was told.

'When they got to a drop-off point that was in Slough - where the man wanted to go - the female said she didn't want to get out but the male took her with him,' Ms Husbands said.

The girl told police that once out of the taxi the man took her into a park and after walking for several minutes they stopped at a muddy area, before he exposed himself and raped her.

The victim said that during the alleged attack she feared she was going to die. In a police interview played to jurors she said how Arif threatened her and forced her to perform acts.

Following the attack, she managed to reach a house, where she roused the elderly couple who lived there, the court heard. They comforted her and let her use their phone to call her father.

Arif was allegedly identified after it emerged he had earlier allowed the schoolgirl to use his phone - with her father noting down the number - and a swab taken from the girl allegedly had his semen.

The girl's memory failed her from between 12.30am and 3am - from shortly after drinks were bought for the friends by an Asian man in Oceana and around the time she got the taxi, the court heard.

Arif denies two counts of rape. The trial, before Judge Zoe Smith, continues.

Graphic Photo: Girl Bathed With Acid By Rejected Lover

23 year old Blessing Ikhumhi, a student of Edo State School of Health Technology was bathed with acid by her ex-boyfriend Cyril Okosun after she ended things with him.

According to the story by Guardian, On March 23rd 2013, Cyril asked to speak with Blessing after she ended their relationship and thinking he wanted to talk reconciliation, she agreed to see him. He visited her house and as she went out to talk to him, he bathed her with acid.

Blessing is now blind in both eyes and battling to stay alive at the University of Benin Teaching Hospital (UBTH), Benin City where she is a patient.

Read Blessing's account of what happened after the cut...



“He was my boyfriend and we had arguments in February. He beat me to the extent that I was not able to go to school for three days. I told him I was no longer interested in the relationship. He later tried to forcibly take my telephone, but I refused to give it to him. I told him he was not the one who bought it for me.”

“On March 23, he called and asked me to meet him in front of our house. I refused initially, but he insisted, so I came out. He asked: “Do you mean you don’t want me again?” I said: “No! I was no more interested in the relationship. And immediately, he poured the acid on my face. 

Since that day, I have been on admission at the UBTH and the doctors say I might not see again except I am flown to India where my eyes could be restored."

“I never knew he would have the heart to pour acid on me. I made a mistake. I have learnt the biggest lesson of my life. My prayer now is that God should touch kind-hearted Nigerians to come to my aide so that I would be able to get treatment abroad, since my parents cannot afford it.”

Doctors in the hospital believe she may never see again except she is flown to a specialist hospital in India, where her sight could be restored.



Source: NIGERIAN GUARDIAN

Tuesday 21 May 2013

Why I ChoseTo Rape Elderly Women- Rapist

Nnanna Osondu is a young man with all the appetites of his age mates. But he would rather satisfy his sexual appetite, which he described as “large” with elderly women whom he raped.

Why? “None of these young girls around is ready to befriend me,” he claimed.

 Nnanna Osondu of Opi community in Nsukka Local Government Area of Enugu State recently stunned security operatives and other inhabitants of the agrarian community when he revealed his delight in raping women far past menopause.


Osondu, said to be in his early 30s, does no serious work for a living. It was reported that he had approached several young women in the community for friendship, but none reciprocated. So, he neither has a wife nor is he courting any one at the moment.

He could not even afford the ‘luxury’ of an hour with a call girl. Still, he wanted to satisfy his sexual urge.
In meeting his desire for sex, Osondu resorted to raping elderly women whom he later claimed were better than many young girls around. But having carnal knowledge of these elderly women, many old enough to be his grandmother, did not come cheap.

Osondu reportedly scouts round the community in the day time, for his prey, and once he gets them, he goes after them at night. Since the alleged rapist could not lure these elderly women with any material item, he reportedly threatened them with a knife he usually concealed in his trousers.

Apart from threatening to kill the elderly women should they refuse him sex, Osondu also carefully selected those women who live alone in their homes.

For months now, Osondu had successfully raped about a dozen elderly women whose age averaged 60 years old. Luck, however, ran out on Osondu Tuesday, last week, when a victim rebuffed his threat to kill her and managed to raise the alarm which drew the attention of passersby. That was around 4:30p.m on a bush path in the community.

It was reported that a day before Osondu planned to carry out his crime against the fair-skinned elderly woman, he had visited the woman pretending to want to buy an item from her.

The woman was reportedly alone at the time Osondu visited her. With the knowledge of the woman going to the market the following day to get some items into her shop, the rapist traced her to the market.

But on her way from the market, he reportedly waylaid the woman at a nearby bush brandishing his knife at the woman, and then asking her for sex. The woman, identity concealed, rebuffed his death threats and started shouting at the top of her voice hoping to attract attention.

The woman soon got help from other villagers returning from the market, who surrounded Osondu and gave him some beating before he was handed over to law enforcement agents. Osondu was later transferred to the Enugu State Criminal Investigations Department where he is reportedly cooperating with the police.

When confronted with the allegation that he was using the women for rituals, Osondu denied the allegation, but claimed that he only ‘used’ the women to satisfy his sexual urge.

“It is not true that I use the women for ritual. The truth is that I have a big appetite for sex and none of these young girls around is ready to befriend me. So I resolve to going for the elderly women,” he said.

Narrating his modus operandi, alleged rapist Osondu continued, “I always get the women in the night or in the bush mostly when they were returning from the market. If anyone wanted to resist me, I only use the knife to threaten them so that they can let me have my way. I never harm them with the knife.

The truth is that young ladies in this town make life difficult for you once you do not have money to spend on them,” he said. Ebere Amaraizu, Enugu State Police Command spokesman, who confirmed the incident, thanked members of the community for apprehending the suspect.

Source: NationalMirror

See The Man Who Killed His Mum & Kept Her Corpse In His Wardrobe For 10 Years


This is the 62 year old retired school principal who killed his mother in 2003, dried her remains and stored them in a cupboard in a room that served as his shrine for ten years. He was arrested by the Imo State police last week after a family member discovered the gruesome sight. 

Photo courtesy Vanguard

Sunday 19 May 2013

12 Types Of Sex For Married Couples



The quality of sex must be like a bell curve.  On the high end you’ve got to be doing something to push those boundaries on a regular basis or really get into kinks and fantasies.  On the low end you may really suck at turning on your spouse or have a spouse who’s very low desire.  Most of us will end up right in the fat middle part of “average” sex, with most slightly above or slightly below over any period of time.  Now “average” sex is still pretty good, but nothing especially memorable.  Hopefully you aren’t average or having average frequency.  Either end of the spectrum (either really bad or really good) can be quite memorable too, as some of the categories I’ll describe below.  Overall, these are the types of marital sex that I’m envisioning most have.

Maintenance Sex – You’re busy with working all day, taking the kids to soccer practice, making dinner, cleaning the house, and finally getting the kids to bed.  You’re both exhausted but one of you needs to have that physical bond or physical release, and the other person obliges out of love for you primarily and to satisfy your animal urges.  We’ve all been there, many of us are wrapped up with various responsibilities and activities it’s hard to connect  as a couple, but this is still necessary, even mid-week.  Kissing isn’t necessary, nor is foreplay, though lube is recommended since the clock is ticking and there’s no time to pre-heat the oven.  This type of sex is a one-position deal, is ok once in awhile and provides a bare minimum of sexual subsistence.  One or both of you are passed out cold within five minutes after cleanup occurs.

The Quickie – “Honey, the kids are playing nicely downstairs with Lincoln Logs, if we hurry, we can lock the door and be done before they even realize we’re not there!”  or “You have five minutes to get done before I have to get showered and dressed for work”.  These can be fun, especially if you have little cock-blockers running around the house, simply for the excitement needed to get in, out and on with life.

Drunk Sex – These can go one of two ways 1) TOTALLY AWESOME!= All inhibitions thrown out the door.  Want to stick something in her butt and haven’t felt comfortable to discuss this while you’re both sober? Now’s your opportunity to grab the lube and see what happens.  2) TOTALLY SUCKY! = they don’t call it whiskey dick for nothing!  Or one minute your wife is talking all hot and sultry and the next minute she’s sawing logs, perhaps with you inside her, or worse yet, throwing up.

Different Location at Home Sex – The kids are with Grandma, we have the whole house to ourselves!  Roll out that blanket in front of the roaring fireplace, or put on an adult film in the living room with some underblanket touchy-feely for a change of pace.  This can be pretty hot since the change of scenery alone is exciting and way better than the hum-drum of vanilla bedroom sex.  Push her up against the washing machine or head to the guest bedroom and pretend you’re at a B&B for awhile, a vacation in the house!

Public Sex – Doesn’t have to be P in V sex, but a little under the table action, or action in the back of the empty move theater is always a good time.  It’s pretty hard to find secluded spaces to actually have sex as married couples where you’re not going to get into too much trouble, and I’m certainly hoping people share some ideas here as this is one of those where I’m sure people do it (maybe not so much after their married) but aren’t sure how to pull it off assuming you’re out childless for the day/night.  I know Ponyboy has some about mountain biking and camping stories that are entertaining, but what about the rest of you horndogs?

Silly Sex – Holly and I had one of these recently, just could not stop the silly vibe.  Laughing and talking while in the act (Me: “Grab my butt!” Her: “I can’t, your butt is too big!” [Author's note: I love my ever expanding butt - squats and whole milk make it strong!];  Dum-Dum all up in our business, it was a debacle and absolutely, totally hilarious.  I’m just glad Dum-Dum didn’t try to lick my ass.  Sometimes the vibe is just funny, it happens!  Roll with it, laugh and enjoy this one, it doesn’t happen too often!

Weekend Sex – Husband and wife are both more relaxed, there’s some verbal banter and foreplay throughout the day, you both know it’s on like Donkey Kong.  A glass or three of wine, some happy vibes going on as you’re getting warmed up.  Then it’s fun time, usually pretty solid and often the time where the bedroom boundaries are expanded like a rubberband (a little at a time) and if all goes well, both parties pass out in an exhausted puddle at the end of the night.

Role Playing/Bondage/Fantasy Sex – While this can be sprung by the wife (role playing) rarely by the husband, it is usually the kind of sex that takes discussion and planning.  However, when done right, this can and usually is totally awesome.  Do you like the nurse and man in a coma (or prefer the Dr.)?  What about the pilot and flight attendant?  Time to break out those scarves and blindfold like 50 Shades.  This kind of married sex takes good communication, some balls if you haven’t discussed this before and a trusting partner who’s willing to try and move up to the upper end of the bell curve.

Vacation Sex – This can fall into two categories: with kids and without.  With kids, if they have their own room, this can simply be a variation of Weekend Sex but in a new location.  If the kids don’t have their own room, it’s sort of like sneaking, quiet, quickie sex under the covers with the kids one bed over.  I’m not sure we’ve actually ever done the sneaky, quickie, but if we haven’t, the thought’s sure crossed my mind and I’m sure happens frequently enough.  For those lucky vacations without kids, this can be totally wild, honeymoon-esque sex complete with lingerie and lack of inhibitions.  For a long, out of the country vacation without kids, this can be like honeymoon Part 2: Hedonism.

 Disconnected Sex – Despite both parties being ready and willing to fulfill each other’s needs, something is off and can’t quite get connected.  You’re either going to fast or two slow, too nice or too rough.  It’s like a tangible thing, though neither of you really wants to admit it’s not going great.  After it’s over, you both feel somewhat dissatisfied.  Definitely falls in the below-average category, and if not corrected can lead to hurt feelings.

Make Up Sex – You’ve just got done clearing the air with the issue at hand.  You’re both fired up, finally one of you makes a goofy joke and the tension and anger hopefully deflates and you both laugh about how ridiculous you both were.  Taking advantage of the fire still in your hearts, you make the move to let her know that it’s water under the bridge and what’s now on your mind is the water under her bridge.  It’s hot and passionate and is a way to say, “I still think I was right, but this is way better than fighting!”

The Debacle Sex – Everything that can goes wrong, goes wrong.  Kids come into the bedroom in the middle.  The cat is barfing on the blanket.  The condom breaks.  She’s having pain.  You come too quickly.  Too much teeth.  Unintentional pain.  This one sucks. All you can do is laugh at the end of the day (after putting little Johnny to sleep, cleaning up the cat barf, dealing with the possibility of kids, etc.) and hope it all works out.  Live to fight another day!

Am I missing any categories?  Any stories you’d like to share?

 

Mother, 3 Daughters Raped At Gunpoint

A gang of suspected rapists, weekend, raped 3 daughters and their mother in Illah town, Oshimili North local government area of Delta State at gun point.

Spokesman of the state police command, ASP Lucky Uyabeme,said the victims were ambushed on their way to the farm, adding that one of the suspects, identified as Chuks had attempted to woo one of the victims, who is a 16-year-old SSII student of one of the secondary schools in the area, but failed.

He said upon interrogation, the suspect confessed to have invited his gang members who assisted him to rape the girl, her mother and two sisters on that fateful day.

It was gathered that the rapists emerged from the thick forest and held the victims with AK 47s. They allegedly stripped them naked before defiling them on the bush path.

Uyabeme said that while the act lasted, passers-by who heard their shout rushed to the scene and were given the same treatment by the suspects who after threatening to kill them escaped with their victims' wrappers and tools into the bush.

Luck however, ran out on one of the gang members as he was identified by the victims.

Some sympathizers who assisted the victims allegedly contacted the police where they insisted that one of the suspects was a known face in the community.

Leadership Sunday learnt that there have been reported cases of rape in the area.In the last two months no fewer than eight under-aged girls were allegedly raped in the community.

The police spokesman said that detectives acting on a tip-off swung into action and arrested the said Chuks who led them to the hideout of his gang members where they were arrested in Kwale with several AK47s recovered from them.

Only last Monday, an 18-year-old female student of Asaba Girls Grammar School was allegedly raped by a group of suspected cultists who assaulted her on her way from the church after a vigil.

Friday 17 May 2013

Viewers Discretion! Trailer Kills Okada Man And His Female Passenger

A terrible accident occurred today around 5pm at Ijoju, Sango Ota, that left two people dead. A trailer used in conveying sharp sand crushed an Okada man and his female passenger while they were trying to cross the road. The bodies were left there for a bit before it was removed. There's no point looking at the photos but if you insist...then be warned, they are quite graphic.



Wednesday 15 May 2013

Man Vomits 27 Condoms Stuffed With Drugs In Uganda Airport

One of the condoms which Camara vomited at the airport. Photo: Ugandanpicks
Police officers at Entebbe airport in Uganda arrested a man suspected to have swallowed at least 27 male condoms stuffed with liquid narcotic drugs, Ugandanpicks reports.

The Guinean national, Alpha Camara, was intercepted at around 8:45am (+3GMT) upon his arrival at the airport. “We subjected him to a vomiting routine check, and he brought out one condom,” Mr Tinka Zarugaba, the Entebbe crime investigations boss, said.

He noted that the suspect was weak, probably as a result of the condoms stuffed in his stomach and he was taken to Entebbe Hospital to consult medical personnel on how to induce him and remove the remaining condoms from his body.

Mr Zarugaba said as soon as all the substances are released from his body, the suspect would be charged with being in possession of narcotics. He added that the suspect pleaded for mercy, saying it was his first time to carry drugs into the country. His flight records showed that he had left Panama to Uganda, and that the police were investigating him for possible connections to individuals in Kampala.

The police have for long decried the old law on narcotics under the National Drug Policy Act, where all cases of drug trafficking are categorised under being in possession of drugs. The charges attract a maximum punishment of a fine not exceeding Sh1 million, imprisonment for not more than four months or caution, all of which police find light.

The police want Parliament to expedite the Narcotics Drugs and Psychotrophics Control Bill 2007 that attracts a maximum punishment of imprisonment for not more than five years or a fine not less than $386 as a way of curbing drug trafficking in Uganda.

Fashion Designer Was Raped & Defrauded By Fake Prophet

A 27- year-old man identified as Morufu Garba is currently cooling his heels in police net for defrauding and assaulting a 20 -year- old lady in Ebute-Metta area of Lagos, recently. The incident happened on the 12th of April, 2013 at about 10pm; when the victim identified as Aminat Ajala, a fashion designing apprentice at Ebute-Metta, returned from work; tired and hungry only to discover that there was no food in the house.

She opted to go get some toast bread at a shop not too far from her 91, Freeman street residence, where she and her siblings live with their maternal grand mother, after the untimely death of their biological mother.

Little did she know that Morufu Garba, a notorious fraudster was lurking somewhere in the neighbourhood, looking for an opportunity to play a fast one on unsuspecting ladies, of which she soon became a victim.

Aminat Ajala told Crime Alert that she had walked few metres from her residence when she noticed that someone tapped her shoulders from behind; she turned to see a young man, walking close to her. He politely requested to have some chat with her, a request she granted.



From that moment on, she alleged she was not in control of actions that ensued; as Morufu, told her he is a prophet with a special message for her. He further told her that it was revealed to him that she will be dead the very next day if certain sacrifice was not carried out; to this he demanded that she provide the money by all means to enable him cancel the death spell hanging around her.

Afraid and under the influence of some power beyond her control, Aminat thought of ways to generate the money, as she had nothing on herself. She then revealed to Morufu that she is just an apprentice and has no money to that effect, he asked her if she knew any other means to raise the money, perhaps through her parents, or siblings, but warned her not to disclose the information to any one else.

At that suggestion, she told him her grand Ma, who owns a buka on the street, has some money stuck in a refrigerator somewhere in her shop, that she also knows where the key is kept. He escorted her back to her residence to get the key, after she succeeded with that, she led him to the shop, and opened it.
They opened the door and went straight to the refrigerator, she tried opening it, but encountered some difficulties as the padlock used in locking it could not open. Morufu went out side, found an axe placed at a corner near the shop and used it to forcefully open the refrigerator and took over N80,000 kept t
here.

He then took her to meet another victim of his, a 22- year- old hair dressing apprentice identified as Ruka, who lives on the neighboring Glover street at Ebute-Metta, he claimed he was trying to also help perform some sacrifice to stop her mother from destroying her life. He had charged her N10,000; and she gave him N1,500, as what she had on her then.

They agreed he will get the money over the weekend. After that, he led her to the venue where he was to perform the sacrifice, some where in Makoko area of Lagos. On getting there, he took her to a one room apartment, spread a mat on the floor and asked her to take off her clothes and lie on the mat.

She obeyed, and all she can recall was that she was rapéd. When he was done with his “sacrifice”, he inserted some objects suspected to be charm into her private part, and abandoned her there. The next day, still under the influence of the charm, the lady managed to gather herself and left the place, but she had no clue where she was. She was later found wandering in Makoko area by one of her neighbours from Freeman street. “He noticed my unusual behavior and suspected that something must have gone wrong somewhere , he brought me home.

Crime Alert also gathered that members of the Ajala household were worried over the unusual disappearance of Aminat from home. It was gathered that after they waited for her to return home with the toast bread to no avail, her grand mother, popularly called Alhaja was worse hit, as she was said to be apprehensive of the thought of what might have happened to her grand-daughter, not after their mother died at a premature age. She had organized a search party, and stayed awake till the next morning when Aminat was brought back by the neighbour.

Recovery from the ordeal
After Aminat was brought back home, the case was reported to the Oyingbo police station and she was taken to a clinic for medical check up, which confirmed that she was rapéd and bleeding. Aminat gave her statement after she recovered from the ordeal. But when she took the policemen to the house where she was rapéd, Morufu was no where to be found.


When inquiries were made, neighbours at the place said they don’t know any body with the identity they described.

To affect Morufu’s arrest, the Oyingbo police DPO invited Ruka, whom he was expecting N10,000 from, and tactically asked her to place a call to Garba on the number he gave her, to come get the money at Makoko junction. He swiftly came, and was arrested on the spot and thereafter charged to court. Information from the court disclosed that Morufu Garba has been charged for a similar case in the past.

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