7 Famous Celebrities Share Sex Advice

Here are seven pieces of our favorite sex advice from famous women..

1. Don't be afraid of dirty talk.

I know a lot of people have a hard time talking dirty -- they don't know what to say, how to start, or when to end it. Also, at first they will think they sound ridiculous. And they might. But let me just say that talking dirty is so important in sex. And it's pretty easy. To wit: Establish from the very beginning that you like this. And trust me, you want to do it early on. Because if you wait too long to introduce the concept, your Special Lady Friend will be a little thrown and might not take you seriously.
-- Olivia Munn, 32

2. Don't ever fake it in the bedroom. (And we don't just mean orgasms.)

You have to really enjoy [being sexy]. Not fake anything. Sexy is being in the moment, whether that means being coy or coming on hard. Faking is always lame and it never comes across the way you want it to.
-- Cameron Diaz, 40

3. Experiment, experiment, experiment.

Some people are more experimental in bed and others are more boring. If you are wild and crazy, bring it on so the other person is well aware that you have little devil horns that come out every once in a while. It's good to make an effort to dress up sometimes, to do things outside of the norm.
-- Heidi Klum, 40

4. There are no rules when it comes to who we're attracted to.

People questioning the idea that a woman could sleep with a man who defied her lot in the looks bracket hews so closely to these really outdated ideas about what makes a woman worth spending time with. Really? Can you not imagine a world in which a girl who's sexually down for anything and oddly gregarious pulls a guy out of his shell for two days?
-- Lena Dunham, 27

5. Don't lie to yourself about your own desires (or lack thereof).

You can lie to your relatives at Christmas dinner and tell them everything on the home front is just peachy. But you cannot lie to your vagina.
-- Olivia Wilde, 29

6. Sex with your ex isn't always a bad idea.

I think it's a good idea when you know that you're not going to see them again or call them again. If it's ex-sex with the hopes of it not being over, you're screwed. Ex-sex is also a good idea when there's unfinished business, like maybe when it's subtly hate sex, or let-me-show-you-how-much-I've-learned-in-the-past-couple-years sex.
-- Rashida Jones, 37

7. Rebound sex can actually be helpful.

I think [rebound sex] is a great idea. I think it's like the only way, if you can manage it... I've been on both sides and sometimes it's like great, that's the way out, and other times it's like a dry spell for months and months.
-- Ari Graynor, 30

'Ex-Sex' - A Good Idea? How Sleeping With An Old Lover Lessens Distress Of Break-Up

We're taught to stay away from the bedrooms of our exes at all costs, and frequently reminded that nothing that goes on in there post-breakup can ever be a good thing for our mental well-being. But received wisdom of this ilk is being shattered by new findings suggesting that 'ex-sex' can, in some cases, be a good idea.

Divorced partners who have slipped up and fallen back into the marital bed report that sex with an ex can actually lessen the psychological distress caused by the break-up.

In a recent study published in the Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology, researchers at the University of Arizona examined a group of 137 recently divorced adults and asked how many had had the occasional post-conjugal visit after their divorce papers had been signed. Findings found that most participants (82.5 per cent) remained in contact with their ex after the separation, and almost one-fifth (21.9 per cent) had sex.

Whether or not the ex-sex actually helped a partner get over the end of their marriage depended on how 'over' it they already were. Partners who hadn't accepted the break-up found the intimate encounters actually helped lessen the pain of divorce.

Meanwhile, partners who had accepted the break-up found sex made no difference at all to how they dealt with it, indicating that 'ex-sex' may not be quite as emotionally detrimental as we had previously thought, and that it can, in fact, have benefits for those who are not-quite over their relationship.

Psychologists believe that break-ups can leave us with attachment needs that go unfulfilled, and that sex with an ex helps to provide some sense of security, and at least partial fulfillment of those needs.

A recent survey found that more women than men look back with longing on past relationships and admit to having had better sex with an ex than with their current partner. The survey of 1,100 adults found that 38 per cent of women said the best sex of their lives was in a previous relationship.

Sex and relationship experts say this 'grass is greener' syndrome is not new. Many women benefit from having sex with their ex because it ultimately gives them 'closure' on the relationship.

However, experts warn: 'It's dodgy ground if there's a lot of emotion involved. If a much-loved partner who has left is interested in sex with you it sends of message of hope - and that could be false hope.

'On their side it's a trip down sexual memory lane, on your side, it's make-up sex with a view of rekindling.

'If you're going to do it, make sure you go into it with a clear understanding of what it means to the other person.'

"Underage Girls Should Be Blamed For Rape" - 69-Year-Old Rapist Claims

Former media mogul Eddy Shah had said underage girls who 'throw themselves' at men for consensual sex are to blame for the abuse they suffer.

The 69-year-old described rape charges where the underage victim willingly engaged in sexual activities with celebrities a 'technical thing'.

Mr Shah, founder of defunct newspaper Today, also branded paedophile investigation Operation Yewtree a 'witch hunt'.

In his first interview since he was cleared of rape of a schoolgirl aged between 12 and 15 at upmarket London hotels in the 1990s, Mr Shah said it was a difference between girls who 'go out to have a good time' and those who are '"rape" raped'.

Mr Shah from Chippenham, Wiltshire claimed that Scotland Yard's investigation into allegations of sexual abuse by Jimmy Savile and other television stars from the 1970s and 1980s was 'easy policing' based on emotions.

'Rape was a technical thing - below a certain age. But these girls were going out with pop groups and becoming groupies and throwing themselves at them,' Mr Shah told BBC Radio 5 Live.

'Young girls and young men have always wanted a bit of excitement when they are young. They want to appear adult and do adult things.'

Asked if this meant the underage victims were themselves at fault, he said: 'If we're talking about girls who just go out and have a good time, then they are to blame.

'If we talk about people who go out and actually get "raped" raped, then I feel no - and everything should be done against that.'

When asked about Operation Yewtree, he agreed it was in danger of turning into a witch hunt.

'I think it's developing into that - it's easy policing and it's easy prosecutions. It's based on emotion most of it.

'It's going back to the witch hunt theory. I'd rather be dunked in water for two minutes and if I came out alive I was not guilty, and if I was dead I was guilty.

'In a civilised society there's got to be more checks and balances before these sort of accusations are used,' he said.

'It's great headlines in papers, it's great to talk about these things. And it's emotional stuff and the emotion always falls on the side of the person who is supposed to have been raped.'

Mr Shah said he had been helping a 'very well-known person' charged by Operation Yewtree investigators deal with the 'horrible, horrible feeling' of 'emptiness about everything' that he had experienced when he was accused of rape.

He also revealed for the first time that he had suicidal thoughts during his trial.

'Every night I worked out different ways of committing suicide to help me go to sleep, actually,' he said.

'I was very low, the only time I was lower than that in my life was when we were told (Mr Shah's wife) Jennifer had three months to live all those years ago. You cannot describe the depths you go to.

'You just want to fall down and never get up again, you think "maybe the stress will kill me and that'll sort the problem out". I wasn't frightened of dying, let me put it that way.'

Mr Shah, born Selim Jehan Shah, went on trial at the Old Bailey last month when a jury took 17 hours and 46 minutes to clear him of six counts of underage rape. The allegations dated back to the 1990s.

After the hearing he called for a review of how rape cases are dealt with by police as he said: 'Anybody walking down the street can point at a celebrity and say, "he raped me".'

The former newspaper proprietor and author claimed the case had nearly bankrupted him and his wife Jennifer, forcing them to sell their golf club. Mr Shah plans to write about his ordeal.

Prisoners Perform Oral Sex In Police Van While On Their Way To Jail (PICTURE)

These male and female prisoners had a brief encounter they probably won't forget.

Carlisa Brookins was caught by their corrections officer as he was performing oral sex on and Alexis Garcia while he was transporting the couple and eight others to a Las Vegas Jail.

The male and female inmates were separated into rows and all of them had belly constraints so the officer was surprised when he saw Brookins allegedly bend over her seat to perform a sex act on Garcia.

When the officer turned on the light, Brookins immediately sat up and made several comments claiming she was not a prostitute because she didn't charge Garcia, according to the police report quoted by the Sun.

Garcia was a complete gentleman under the circumstances, telling Brookins, "I'll get you off before we hit downtown," according to inmate Jessica Melaerts, who was sitting near Brookins.

Melaerts also told police she didn't want to look at the live sex show because she thought it was "gross," according to the Las Vegas Review-Journal.

Garcia's arrest record includes several possession charges, and an arrest for carrying a concealed weapon without a permit. Brookins was arrested July 28 on drug charges.

Once they were caught in the act, they were both transported back to the Clark County Detention Center and booked for voluntary sex with an inmate.

Russian Police Brutalise and Sodomise Olympic Construction Worker

Police in the Russian city of Sochi, which is due in 2014 to host the Winter Olympics, allegedly beat and raped a construction worker over a pay dispute amounting to around 20,000 Russian roubles (N97,500).

Vocativ reports that Martiros Demerchyan, a construction worker who spent seven weeks working on housing for the Winter Olympics was accused of stealing copper wire by his supervisor, after he said he was underpaid by 20,000 roubles (N97,500).

After consenting to a search of his home, Demerchyan was told to go to pick up his pay from his supervisor, but says he was greeted instead by police officers.

He said he was encouraged by police to sign a document admitting he stole the copper wire, but when he refused, he was beaten up, had two teeth cracked, before losing consciousness.

The 38-year-old then said he was bent over and raped with a fireman's crowbar.

"I screamed," he said. "I said, 'I'll sign whatever you want, just please don't torture me anymore. I can't bear any more of this.'"

A medical report from a private medical centre in Sochi read that he had received two broken teeth, as well as "intestinal injuries obtained from penetration by a foreign object."

According to Vocativ, a representative for the Okhotskaya Building Company, which is responsible for the work Demerchyan was doing, refused to comment on the incident.

A lawyer acting on behalf of Demerchyan, Alexander Boychenko, accused police of negligence in their handling of the case - saying the officer in charge took a month, rather than the maximum three days - to consider the case. The officer then decided that the case was not worth pursuing.

Some have argued that the delay was a tactic in order to allow Demerchyan's wounds to heal in order to see a court be less sympathetic.

Demerchyan has said he still suffers from reduced vision and lower back pain and kidneys. He has also borrowed as much money as he can to support his four children and wife, but that he does not see justice in sight.

Some campaigners have called for a boycott of the Winter Olympics, set to take place in Sochi next year, because of anti-gay laws recently introduced in Russia.

A number of British and American gay bars have said that they will boycott Russian vodka. One of the most popular Russian sourced vodkas, Stoli, has criticised the anti-gay policies of the Russian government.

How Russia Deals With Gays: Kidnapped, Tortured Teen Dies (VIDEOS)

LGBT young people are being left traumatized, with some reportedly committing suicide, after they are captured by neo-Nazis and humiliated in front of video cameras.

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A gay teen who was kidnapped, humiliated and tortured in Russia has reportedly died. The boy, not named, was a victim of the infamous fascist leader Maxim Matsinkevich, known as the 'Cleaver'.

It is unknown whether the boy died from his injuries or committed suicide.

One picture shows the humiliated young teen in his underwear appearing to hold a sex toy as his captors grin for the camera. He is also covered in paint as a baseball bat looms in the background.

No arrests have been made and no charges were pressed.

It has been revealed that Matsinkevich's group was using the Russian version of Facebook, V Kontakte, to lure unsuspecting victims through personal ads.

Once a teen shows up for a 'date', they are captured and bullied and often tortured while being recorded on video.

Video recordings of bulling and torture are freely distributed on the internet in order to out LGBT teens to their respective schools, parents and friends. Many of these shocking videos are uploaded to YouTube in order to further humiliate their victims.

In one such video, a gay teen with disabilities is interrogated, choked, and beaten.

Many victims were driven to suicides, the rest deeply traumatised.

The group claims they are simply trying to identify and report pedophiles.

When approached by authorities, V Kontakte shut down several of the groups and profiles but did not stop them from starting new ones the following day.

The disturbing stories come as President Vladimir Putin signed the 'non-traditional relationships propaganda' bill into law last month, effectively stopping any person from speaking out for gay rights in Russia.

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GAY MARRIAGE: How Crimininalizing Same-Sex Relationships Will Affect Nigeria

By Chinedu Ikpechukwu

Britain and the United States have aligned foreign aid with gay rights and have threatened to cut aid to Nigeria if the current bill is passed.

Last month, my country inched closer to the outright criminalization of homosexual relations. The latest unanimous vote by the House of Representatives is only the culmination of recent legislation pertaining to homosexual acts. In 2006, under the leadership of President Olesugun Obasanjo, the national assembly proposed a bill prohibiting same-sex marriage. In many ways, it served as a template for the current pending legislation. The 2006 bill not only prohibited same-sex marriage but also banned the adoption of children by same-sex couples, religious recognition of same-sex marriage, institutional recognition of homosexuality including bans on gay clubs, and even public displays of affection in publicand private.

The current bill being put forward for President Goodluck Jonathan to sign contains all the aforementioned restrictions outlined in the earlier bill. The only difference between both bills lies in the severity of punishments for guilty offenders. In the 2006 bill, a person found guilty (either by being directly involved, or aiding and abetting) of violating these prohibitions was liable to 5 years in prison. The current bill has extended the sentence duration to 14 years for entering a marriage contract, and 10 years for violating any of the other prohibitions.

What has driven this recent spate of legislation on homosexuality? It seems to have coincided with the first Nigerian to openly come out before the nation. Bisi Alimi gained notoriety as a gay man at the University of Lagos where he majored in theater arts, prompting an appearance in October of 2004 on the popular New Dawn talk show where he bravely acknowledged his homosexuality, and in tandem, asked for acceptance from the nation. It seems plausible that the recent legislation push is rooted in a visceral response to the contents of that interview. This prompts the question, should laws be created from disgust?

The efforts of the Nigerian national assembly are not only flawed in logic; they are also unconstitutional. The current bill being put forward violates religious freedom. The Nigerian constitution (Section 38 (1)) clearly states that "every person shall be entitled to freedom of thought, conscience and religion" and that includes the "freedom to change his religion or belief" as well as the "freedom to manifest and propagate his religion or belief in worship, teaching practice and observance". A mandate that forces churches and mosques not to recognize homosexual relationships clearly goes against this constitutional statute. While it is unlikely that the majority of churches and mosques would currently recognize homosexuality, it cannot be underestimated what the impact would be if a few broke the mould. The constitution guarantees a freedom of expression which would be violated by the bill's prohibition of public affection between homosexuals. The constitution also protects the freedoms of persons to "freely assemble and associate with other persons" which would be in direct conflict with the bill's prohibition on gay clubs and institutions.

All Nigerians will feel the impact of this law as it awaits President Jonathan's signature. Britain and the United States have aligned foreign aid with gay rights and have threatened to cut aid to Nigeria if this bill is passed. The UK spent about £141 million in 2012 to help improve education facilities, as well as family planning and immunization services. The UK had committed to increasing aid by 116% to £305 million for 2014/15. The US, on the other hand, funded $630 million in foreign aid in 2012 to Nigeria, 80% of which was used to help with the prevention and treatment of HIV/AIDS. The rest of the money went to fund malaria treatment and eradication. Malaria and HIV/AIDS cause 515, 000 deaths annually with malaria accounting for roughly 60% of those deaths. It is no exaggeration to say that cuts to foreign aid would provide a monumental obstacle to those who currently benefit from these programmes.

The aggressive intolerance of homosexuals has been propagated under the banner of "protecting the integrity of our culture". Perhaps the greatest concern is the level of fear among homosexuals in Nigeria that this law will induce. Harassment without investigation or trial has already driven them underground. By criminalizing homosexuality, the government has now institutionalized disgust.